
What do you do to improve your mental health?
Share how you look after your own mental health and how you support others.
Great Mental Health Day is about celebrating the small things we can do to boost our own wellbeing and support each other through difficult times.
The fourth edition of Great Mental Health Day is taking place on 31 January 2025.
This year’s theme is 'Small Actions for Others' and is a reminder that simple gestures, like checking in on one another, can make a big difference to someone’s mental wellbeing.
The Mayor supports Thrive LDN – a citywide movement to improve the mental health and wellbeing of all Londoners and led by the London Health Board.
Join the discussion
For Great Mental Health Day, Thrive LDN wants to hear from you about your mental wellbeing.
- What do you do to improve your own mental health?
- What makes you feel connected to others?
- What do you do to support others in your community?
Let us know in the discussion below. You can also comment on other members’ contributions or click the heart icon to show support.
Your contributions will help Thrive to promote mental wellbeing by sharing examples of Londoners' stories.
Did you know?
One in four people will experience a mental health problem in their lifetime. And all of us will experience times when we feel low, worried or anxious.
Signs that you may be struggling with your mental health include:
- problems sleeping
- losing interest in things you used to enjoy
- being tearful, irritable or restless
- feeling tired
- changes in appetite
- negative thoughts and feelings.
Looking after your mental health is important. These tips and tools can help keep you mentally well.
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Community Member 3 years agoI can't really do anything much to look after my mental although I wish I was allowed the chance to. I've trapped in prison of bad insecure private renting and domestic violence. Main benefit for my mental health would be if I was allowed a...
Show full commentI can't really do anything much to look after my mental although I wish I was allowed the chance to. I've trapped in prison of bad insecure private renting and domestic violence. Main benefit for my mental health would be if I was allowed a safe stable home. Unable to do simple things for mental health without that. No fresh air, no friends, nothing.
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Community Member 3 years agoOther thing is my mental health shattered by knowing very hard to be safe because if having of prexisting conditions. Was able to have freedom to go to shop when masks on everyone but now not safe.
Thrive LDN
Official Representative 3 years agoThank you for sharing your experiences. We’re sorry to read that you have been unable to support your mental health and feel trapped in a difficult situation. The situation you describe sounds terrible, and it is not surprising that you are finding it difficult to look after your mental health at the moment. But help is available, and you don’t have to wait for an emergency situation to find help:
• For local mental health advice and support: www.mind.org.uk/information-support/local-minds/
• Domestic violence: www.nhs.uk/live-well/healthy-body/getting-help-for-domestic-violence/
• Boots, Morrisons, Superdrug and Well pharmacies, TSB banks and independent pharmacies across the UK have Safe Spaces offering discrete help for people experiencing domestic abuse: https://uksaynomore.org/safespaces
• Housing advice (including emergency advice and for people experiencing domestic abuse: https://england.shelter.org.uk
• Shelter also has a free helpline 0808 800 4444 and an emergency helpline 0808 164 4660.
• You can apply for housing from your local council, or write to your councillor, Assembly Member or MP about a specific issue: https://www.writetothem.com
With best wishes,
Thrive LDN
Ange
Community Member 3 years agoGroup singing is a very useful and enjoyable way of maintaining good mental health. It really helps people who feel lonely and as if they don't belong, and the singing itself releases endorphins (natural pain killers) which help people to...
Show full commentGroup singing is a very useful and enjoyable way of maintaining good mental health. It really helps people who feel lonely and as if they don't belong, and the singing itself releases endorphins (natural pain killers) which help people to feel much better. As a singing leader myself, I really enjoy singing with others. The Natural Voice network lists singing groups if anyone wants to join in (naturalvoice.net)
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Community Member 3 years agoI chant Nam Myoho Renge Kyo twice a day to reveal my true self and overcome feelings of being disconnect and hopelessness; I chant Nam Myoho Renge Kyo for my friends' and family members' happiness and wellbeing too, and that enhances my own...
Show full commentI chant Nam Myoho Renge Kyo twice a day to reveal my true self and overcome feelings of being disconnect and hopelessness; I chant Nam Myoho Renge Kyo for my friends' and family members' happiness and wellbeing too, and that enhances my own wellbeing in turn.
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Community Member 3 years agoI go to The Columbo Centre for Dancercise classes and Morley College for choral singing. These classes keep me fit, in touch with people and happy. I also keep in touch with my family via WhatsApp and email, so feel supported by them too.
Talk London
Official Representative 3 years agoHi everyone
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experience in this discussion.
Today is London’s first Great Mental Health Day and activities are happening all over the capital. Have a look at what’s going on in your area: https://thriveldn.co.uk/calendar/
You can also access free resources and online tools to promote good wellbeing: https://thriveldn.co.uk/resources/tools-and-resources-to-help-your-ment…
Research suggests that:
• having a strong social network improves wellbeing and can make you live longer
• people who exercise regularly tend to be happier
• learning new things can make you feel more confident and less likely to be anxious or depressed
• having a hobby reduces stress, anxiety and depression.
What works for you to improve your mental wellbeing? And what do you do to support others in your community?
Please keep adding your ideas to this discussion thread to help and inspire others, or share this with friends and family who may wish to contribute too.
Thank you for taking part!
Talk London
meme
Community Member 3 years agowhy do you waste money duplicating the work of so many charities and the NHS and local councils? It is total overkill and a total waste of money. Absurd mission creep and nothing but socio-political posturing. The Mayor's office should be a...
Show full commentwhy do you waste money duplicating the work of so many charities and the NHS and local councils? It is total overkill and a total waste of money. Absurd mission creep and nothing but socio-political posturing. The Mayor's office should be a model of efficiency and mature policy making. Instead the whole thing looks like PR for the Mayor with a bunch of well-meaning but immature, middle class children throwing money around like confetti on pet projects.
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Community Member 3 years agoI beg to disagree. An opportunity to express one's opinion is essential to relieving stress and frustration, or why is social media so popular? Your doctor and NHS workers are usually too busy to listen, charities exist for particular...
Show full commentI beg to disagree. An opportunity to express one's opinion is essential to relieving stress and frustration, or why is social media so popular? Your doctor and NHS workers are usually too busy to listen, charities exist for particular interest groups, the Mayor needs continual, useful feedback to learn of Londoners' concerns.
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Official Representative 3 years agoThank you for responding to the discussion. For some people, this has been a challenging or lonely time, particularly as the effects of the pandemic continue to have an impact on many people’s mental health and wellbeing. The NHS’s national Help! Campaign highlighted that more than 57% of people in London were concerned about their mental health last year, with 51% reporting that they did not seek professional help.
Great Mental Health Day aimed to help get us talking about mental health, destigmatise asking for help, and make more people aware of the support available to them. Facilitated by Thrive LDN, with support from the Mayor of London, it brought together organisations with a wide range of experience and expertise in supporting mental health and wellbeing, including the NHS in London, regional charities, London’s voluntary and community sector, and London boroughs.
The insights gathered from the day, and through Thrive LDN’s ongoing work, are helping all health and care partners across London plan the city’s recovery from the pandemic. Through Great Mental Health Day, and other similar events, we are better able to capture the views and voices of Londoners in this process.
To end on a positive note, encouragingly Londoners are becoming more conscious of their mental health, with 63% planning to focus more on this in 2022. We hope Great Mental Health Day may have prompted and supported some more people to do this.
With best wishes,
Thrive LDN
Backtoboroughs
Community Member 3 years agoThis is a shout if for those with mental health symptoms to where possible, track symptoms. Doing so allows patterns or triggers to be spotted. Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD) is an example of a cyclical illness where fluctuations...
Show full commentThis is a shout if for those with mental health symptoms to where possible, track symptoms. Doing so allows patterns or triggers to be spotted. Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD) is an example of a cyclical illness where fluctuations of hormones cause cyclical mental health symptoms. For some this will be very few weeks from puberty to when hormones subside in your body (age 50).
Don’t ignore uncontrollable rage, sensitivity to light, the unexpected, especially noise, change in appearance - feeling like your face has slid down your face, change in voice tone (husky, grittier than at other times), low mood, rumination, unable to efficiently carry out day to day routine activities (getting up, leaving the house), joint ache and other physical symptoms such as bloating or pain else where. Document for 3 months.
Your GP is a great place to find help. You made need to visit one or two to feel the correct bond when discussing mental health. That is okay.
If family members or friends appear to have cyclical symptoms or symptoms that they don’t notice find information from you tube and Internet in the first instance to get informed about mental illness, symptoms and the language to use. Dedicated Facebook groups can help. Only follow qualified GP and specialist guidance for any treatments and changes to lifestyle, following a diagnosis or advice.
When we gave given our body the opportunity to work at its optimum, we provide ourselves with the energy to keep striving to help ourselves and seek help, however challenging and persevering with seeking support until you are satisfied it makes sense to you and your body.
Optimum self care is vital: access to nature, fresh air, rainbow or variety in diet, relaxation avenues, hydration, grooming routine.
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Community Member 3 years agoI walk and I read and I try to make sure I make time for myself to do things I enjoy.
In terms of what I do to feel connected to others, I see my friends and family when I can and do the odd group exercise class.
I support others in my...
Show full commentI walk and I read and I try to make sure I make time for myself to do things I enjoy.
In terms of what I do to feel connected to others, I see my friends and family when I can and do the odd group exercise class.
I support others in my community by volunteering for a small charity in the Borough in which I work and I am a befriender (I visit an elderly housebound lady once a week during non-covid times) and I make phone calls for them to other elderly isolated people.
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Community Member 3 years agoWe banned phones from the bedroom (including charging) several years ago, which really helps, and feels very natural after a short time. I feel my life has also been improved by a decision to not turn on my phone in the morning until I am...
Show full commentWe banned phones from the bedroom (including charging) several years ago, which really helps, and feels very natural after a short time. I feel my life has also been improved by a decision to not turn on my phone in the morning until I am back from dropping my daughter off at school. There is no downside to this for me - there's really nothing that can't wait till 9 o'clock, and I'm sure our morning routine is immeasurably improved by the fact that nothing is competing for our attention.
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Community Member 3 years agoI find walking in nature a great healer and any form of exercise from Body Combat to Pilates.
Reading a book
Getting lost in a film
E12
Community Member 3 years agoI have practised yoga exercises for many years and start the day with a simple routine. It seems to me there is a connection between physical and mental health, quiet exercise helps to calm my mind so that the difficulties everyone faces...
Show full commentI have practised yoga exercises for many years and start the day with a simple routine. It seems to me there is a connection between physical and mental health, quiet exercise helps to calm my mind so that the difficulties everyone faces are seen in perspective. The past few years with Covid have been very hard for us all, the isolation of lockdowns is especially difficult and harmful to mental health. I dread another lockdown. Those few quiet moments every morning have been invaluable in getting me through this pandemic.
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Community Member 3 years agoMy local church community in Wandsworth is a huge lifeline!! Wonderful to meet with a range of people and to know their care and support.
Show full commentMy local church community in Wandsworth is a huge lifeline!! Wonderful to meet with a range of people and to know their care and support.
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Community Member 3 years agoThe organisation Open Age has been a wonderful help offering zoom classes throughout the pandemic. I was doing some volunteering with them before the pandemic to encourage people to join. As it helped me come out of depression after...
Show full commentThe organisation Open Age has been a wonderful help offering zoom classes throughout the pandemic. I was doing some volunteering with them before the pandemic to encourage people to join. As it helped me come out of depression after bereavements. I had some great counselling from the West London counselling centre. I joined many physical classes in Open Age where I have learnt pilates and to dance plus also creative sessions and lectures. Public Acts and their link to the National theatre also had events that helped connect me with others and fed my creativity. Walking in nature at the local cemetery has helped especially feeding the squirrels and observing the trees through the seasons. I did struggle sometimes mentally and my family and friends helped me through. I also got some good excercises from the musculo=skeletal guy at my doctors and now my back pain is not so bad. I did put some weight back on while shielding and I am now watching my diet and excercising to remove it. I am now volunteering with Friendly Welcome Camden working towards resettling a refugee family in Camden.
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Community Member 3 years agoNever felt the need to think about it. 30 years of managing ME/CFS, on and off prepared one well for isolation.
Show full commentNever felt the need to think about it. 30 years of managing ME/CFS, on and off prepared one well for isolation.
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Community Member 3 years agoTo be all too brutally honest it's all down to the individual, I suffer chronic pain due to several issues with my back and also have COPD so have worried incessantly about catching the 'vid BUT just find one thing you enjoy and embrace it...
Show full commentTo be all too brutally honest it's all down to the individual, I suffer chronic pain due to several issues with my back and also have COPD so have worried incessantly about catching the 'vid BUT just find one thing you enjoy and embrace it, for me it's bikes, went out and bought a Harley at end of 1st lockdown and every time I'm feeling close to the edge just go out for a spin and blow the cobwebs away.
Just find that one little thing that matters to you and hold onto it.
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Community Member 3 years agoWhat helped me was understanding a prayer by Reinhold Niebuhr (American theologian, 1892-1971) 'God, grant me serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference.' Trying to...
Show full commentWhat helped me was understanding a prayer by Reinhold Niebuhr (American theologian, 1892-1971) 'God, grant me serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference.' Trying to change what you cannot achieve, realistically or practically, just lead to frustrations and stress for me.
By the way, I am not religious but I still found this useful, perhaps you can swap the word "god" for whoever/ whatever you wish.
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Community Member 3 years agoSolutions are multiple and so they should be. My local park is awful so I take a bus to a nicer one. I visit a gallery, it's free. I watch a good documentary on iplayer, it comes with the BBC license fee. You can go to a cheap cinema like...
Show full commentSolutions are multiple and so they should be. My local park is awful so I take a bus to a nicer one. I visit a gallery, it's free. I watch a good documentary on iplayer, it comes with the BBC license fee. You can go to a cheap cinema like Vue, only £5.99. You can get involved with the community, I am on the NextDoor app which tells me what's going on in my area, and the Olio app where I can give or get free food.
Show less of commentI've also started to contribute art to Grayson Perry's Art Club on Channel 4, the entries are open. Being a creative person helps tremendously. I'm interested in politics so I listen to LBC in the morning, although it can get you down sometimes. I listen to podcasts. I also listen to music which is the best medication against depression ever. Reading is great too and I have several books on the go. Cooking from scratch is a good thing as low-quality meals are a downer for me. It is creative and satisfying.
You don't have to have money for any of these activities, there are always means to get things cheap or free.
Peter77
Community Member 3 years agoI struggle to maintain a positive attitude to life - in London or elsewhere - unless I can keep myself busy. More of an issue for me is mental health for younger people / teenagers, in particular my son. He has a place at college for next...
Show full commentI struggle to maintain a positive attitude to life - in London or elsewhere - unless I can keep myself busy. More of an issue for me is mental health for younger people / teenagers, in particular my son. He has a place at college for next year, but it's clear that COVID has had a massive impact on his plans for travel this year, and on the likely experience he will have at college. His sister at university has had hardly any face to face teaching, and of course many student activities have been ruled out over the past two years - so her expected life experiences have been seriously impoverished. I have found it difficult to follow the 'science' behind lockdown - we have focused almost entirely on physical health, with little consideration given to mental health or economic health. I am disgusted and depressed by those who have not taken up vaccinations, excepting of course those with particular medical contra-indicating conditions. That disgust and depression is especially focused on professional medical staff and sportspeople, who should be setting a strong and positive example. I've been depressed by the poor reporting from the BBC and most of our national media, which has emphasised the few but extreme disconnections across society.
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Community Member 3 years agoI am sorry about your state of mind. However, I struggle to see how your comments could help the community.
snowball
Community Member 3 years agoLondon is the most wonderful city for my mental health- I thnk learning about the history while walking among classic architecture, it is the most wonderful escape- and for the most part it is free. There are parks in London as well which...
Show full commentLondon is the most wonderful city for my mental health- I thnk learning about the history while walking among classic architecture, it is the most wonderful escape- and for the most part it is free. There are parks in London as well which offer natural beauty and often animals. If you can afford it- then theatre is not known as Dr Theatre for no reason- perfect escapism,. I do not connect well - but that is not an issue as there is so much to do in London it is not possible to be bored. When spare cash allows you can always go on a London Walks Tour- and then you will meet with like minded others. Take a packed lunch and a drink and you have the history of London for the price of a travel card.
Years ago I was going away for the weekend to a hotel- my work colleagues asked me where I was going- I replied - London- err??? they said - you work in London, you live in London- yes I said- true- but I am going to be a tourist- people spend 1000s£ to come here every year and I want to appreciate my birthplace as much as they do- and I have never felt depressed when in London since then. And importantly after a long day exploring- a good night's sleep follows. One of the reasons I get low is because I think to much- so concentrating on the city I love does not allow me to wallow in my own issues and little things like discovering a new deli/baker/blue plaque make me happy. Museums and art galleries are often free so rainy days are covered in this plan too.
Show less of commentAs Dr Johnson said in 1777-"Why, Sir, you find no man, at all intellectual, who is willing to leave London. No, Sir, when a man is tired of London, he is tired of life; for there is in London all that life can afford."
ForestGrew
Community Member 3 years agoRunning outside on a regular basis is amazing for my mental health. Also going for walks with my wife and talking through things that we're facing. Have recently started playing football again too and that helps.
Show full commentRunning outside on a regular basis is amazing for my mental health. Also going for walks with my wife and talking through things that we're facing. Have recently started playing football again too and that helps.
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